Unconventional

What is unconventional ? I used to think doing something that hurts anybody or anybody's feeling is unconventional.. but am realising, in due course that it is not always true... Then what is it?? When I try to do something unconventional, I am being opposed and I get hurt... So others act of avoiding me, in doing unconventional, that hurts me, isn't it unconventional... Ok, let us take a contextual approach... What is unconventional in one context can be ok in another context... But who defines the context.....? What is the conventional way of defining that context.. if that goes out of the order, then on what basis do we judge...Ok... Over period of time, what was unconventional is becoming conventional, So is time the context...? What is Unconventional in India is accepted in other countries, ok so is location the context ? When something unconventional happens, i express my dissatisfaction, in some cases, i just ignore, saying it is not going to affect me in anyway... So is unconventional act defined by whether it creates an effect/impact on me ( even though i am not directly involved ) ???? we enjoy some of the unconventional act when it happens in movies or explained in stories. So are unconventional acts - a fantasy that cannot happen in a real life??? Can I do an unconventional act continuously, repeatedly to make it conventional... ?? Can money be influential in flipping between conventional and unconventional act/decision.. So is conventional act depends on sentiments or is it a rule ( written or unwritten )... Ok, now, I list down all what is considered conventional ( given a context, time, location and a specific scenario ) .. can i assume whatever is not listed as unconventional ?

Towards the exploration to understand what is unconventional, I get to hit upon acts/ incidents / scenarios are

1. accepted / unaccepted conventional act

2. accepted / unaccepted unconventional act

--- i am not sure whether categorising accepted unconventional act as a conventional act or categorising an unaccepted conventional act as an unconventional act is correct or not

3. conventionally unconventional

4. unconventionally conventional

5. None of the above !!!!....

Still the question remains... am confused whether to take the conventional approach or unconventional approach to find an answer for this question....